Potty Training
Potty Training: A Process, Not a Sprint Potty training is one of those developmental milestones that comes wrapped in expectation, trial, and the occasional puddle on the floor. Contrary to the modern Dutch trend of waiting until a child is well into toddlerhood, there is a strong case for starting much earlier—as early as 8 to 12 months. At that stage, the process can be more instinctive than instructional. With consistency, it simply becomes a habit, not a battle of wills. In our family's case, the journey began right on schedule, with promising early progress. But then life intervened. Teething and a long vacation derailed the momentum, and the potty was temporarily sidelined. By the time training resumed at 21 months, a new dynamic had emerged: our daughter was more aware, more verbal, and also more opinionated. She could now say "no," and often did. Pottying had evolved from a habit into a decision. And decisions, as most caregivers learn, are not always cooper...